I’ve known my lovely wife for what seems like forever (37 of our 43 years). Together 19 years, married 14… she’s put up with a lot from me, by now! I always joke it’s Stockholm Syndrome, at this point…
Most of what she endures is my rattling on about this band or that, this version of a song versus another, or where I was when I first heard something. Mostly, she listens in good humour, but when her eyes start to glass over, I know I’m maybe offering too many minute details… Oh, and she absolutely, categorically and completely refuses to play name that tune with me.
During our road trip to African Lion Safari and the butterfly conservatory last weekend, we had lots of time in the car. We discussed many things and a good time was had. Our daughter got to hear both her favourite Jake Bugg albums, and our son discovered that he really likes Crowded House. Right on.
Somehow, the Beatles came up in the course of our rambling, far-flung conversation. Probably because I’ve been seeing Sgt. Pepper reviews and Beatles talk in the blogs. It’s fairly well-known by now that I’m not the world’s biggest Beatles fan. I grew up on them, and burned out on them at a fairly young age. While I respect them and appreciate some (not all) of what they did, I don’t get all twitterpated about them being the world’s best whatever.
My lovely wife braced herself for my usual rant about them, but I wasn’t in the mood for that and, in fact, even mentioned a few of their songs that I like. As I listed a few off, she stopped me and said, “you know, we talk about the Beatles now and again, and whenever you mention songs that you like, they add up and I realize: you don’t like the Beatles, you like George Harrison!” It was true. I hadn’t even realized, but every song I was listing off was written by George.
Fair enough. And thanks to my lovely wife for this brilliant insight…
Your wife sounds amazing.
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She truly is, Vinnie. She truly is. 🙂
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You’re a lucky man.
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Every day I wonder what this beautiful angel is doing with a schmuck like me. But I don’t wonder too loudly, ‘cos I like things just the way they are! 🙂
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I’m sure it’s because you are a great guy and she loves you dearly.
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Aw thanks Vinnie. You’re probably right, but I’m my own worst critic (as Mike has pointed out). It’s amazing, though, my lovely wife and I have known each other going on 40 years and every day still I am renewed by her. Even the days when we’re running a million different directions doing boring stuff, and juggling two kids and sports and work and meals and bedtime stories, that sense of togetherness is always there. Life is good!
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That is really lovely. I hope to have that special experience in my life too.
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You will, Vinnie! Stay true! 🙂
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Thanks for the encouragement.
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A lot of folks will argue that the Beatles’ influence on popular music makes them the best band ever by default. Not me, though. Like you, I appreciate that the impact and like a load of songs, but I just don’t enjoy listening to them that much. Sgt. Peppers aside.
Looking at songs, it appears I’m a fan of George too.
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It’s mostly the boomers rattling on about the Beatles. And they’re aging, so…
Right on, another George fan!
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I like a lot of George’s stuff with the Beatles and I prefer his post Beatles material. So you’re not alone.
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Hey thanks, man! It’s good to know there are like-minded individuals!
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I tend to fall in love with Beatles covers, like Soundgarden’s Come Together or Motley Crue’s Helter Skelter. Sometimes more than the originals. -hides-
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No need to hide, Jade. Their songs are strong, and covers of them are well within bounds. Turn up the Soundgarden!
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People often forget George when listing the 4 Beatles – I remember a show (Hockey week) in the 90s quizzed NHL players, asking them to name all 4.
A bunch of them got John/Paul/Ringo but only Brendan Shanahan got George – I knew I liked Shanny!
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Ha, I usually forget Ringo.
It can be a mistake to ask hockey players about non-hockey things. Prime example. Also, who the hell cares if these guys can name all the Beatles? Weird. Ah well, good job, Brendan!
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We had Here Comes The Sun at my parents anniversary party.
I am a bigger Beatles fan than you, but I get the George love.
He was my favourite as well.
Maybe if you pretended he was Nelson Wilbury or L’Angelo Misterioso you could forget he was in that other band.
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Oooh nice reference.
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I see what you did there! 😉
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Here comes the sun was our exit music for our wedding ceremony!
And we used Cash’s version of In My Life for the signing.
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Nice. We had music at our wedding, but (imagine this!) no Beatles.
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Including the reception ours was mostly Beatles!
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HAHAHA…
Mrs Books tunes up Mr Books!
Chalk up one for the Mrs!
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I would truly be lost without her, Deke!
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